Care and communication- we can't have one without the other!

Have you ever been a patient?

I ask because until you have been a patient , I truly don't believe you can fully understand what it is like to be in that position yourself .

How did I feel being a patient? The truth is very scared, I am used to being in control, active, working and of reasonable good health.  When something starts to go wrong all of that changes and for me I felt vulnerable, weak and scared.

When in this position you are relying on others to understand, help, comfort and make you feel listened to and safe.

As health care professionals we are in a very privileged position in that we care for individuals often when they are at their most vulnerable and feeling scared. What they need from us is to know they are safe, listened too, cared for and that we understand how they may be feeling.

I know how it feels to be scared, not knowing if you will ever get better again, ever go to work again, or be able to care for your family.  Everyone that we nurse has a different story and reason for being there and the only way we will know this is to listen to them and hear their story. For that story can be the key to their recovery and give us such great insight into their life and in turn their health.

The common theme in all of this is communication, I believe it underpins the chief nursing officers 6c's

Communication is a core competence and for me the most important one for without this skill how can we deliver the others.

Every one working in care individuals and organisations should make communication their priority for without this key skill how can we provide safe care?

Who cares for the Carer's?

You might be wondering why I have been a bit quiet for the last 6 months on the blogging front?

The truth is, I have been poorly as the loss of my dad finally hit me over the Christmas and New Year period. No one can predict their reaction to grief, everyone is different and so they should be! At the time of his passing I went into shock (well I presume that is what it was) no one has ever told me! All I know is that I couldn't speak or move I was totally numb sat on the floor leaning against his bed, knowing that the dad I had always loved was lying motionless next to me and there was nothing I could do about it.

I know I went to bed as I was exhausted and I remember my mum slept on the camp bed next to him for the remainder of the night, as she has previously done every night for the last two weeks numb with pain and grief herself.

I was awoken early by the night sitter as the funeral directors were here to collect dad. I remember being scared to go downstairs because I didn't want to see my dad lying motionless in the bed. However I knew I wanted to say goodbye and I desperately wanted to say to the funeral directors "please look after my dad as he is very special to us". I kissed my dad goodbye remembering how cold he felt and thinking why is he so cold it's only been a few hours?

It all seemed very quick, he was stretchered out and put into the back of the black van as my mum and I watched out of the window as he was driven off. It felt so final, I wanted to run after the van and say bring him back we are not ready for him to go yet, we are not ready to let go.

You then seem to go into an automatic pilot of  notifying everyone and funeral arranging and before you know it the funeral is over and you are back to work and life goes on. However for you and your loved ones how do you go on when your whole family dynamics has just changed for ever?

For me I ploughed myself into my work and campaigning for better dementia awareness and care via social media and joining Task Force groups and Experts by Experience Groups  at the Department of  Health and The Kings Fund. I thought I was doing the right thing however now I look back and wonder whether is was in fact putting off the inevitable in coming to terms with my dads loss. If I kept busy campaigning I wouldn't have time to think about it and they say time is a great healer!

So when I came crashing down at christmas I could longer hide behind my work or campaigning, in fact I couldn't do anything and had to stop completely. It has been a long six months where at times I didn't think I would ever see the light at the end of the tunnel again and like my dad's dementia care it too has felt a lonely road from a health care perspective. However I have had wonderful support from my twitter friends, colleagues, family and friends and have taken the time to review my work life balance and life in general!

For carers of those living with dementia or in fact anyone with a life limiting illness the journey does not stop once they have died, the care and support needed at this difficult time is paramount and I would like to take this opportunity to thanks Cruse Bereavement Charity who freely have provided counselling to me at what has been a difficult and challenging time in my life.

Who carers for the carers? They certainly do as do many other charitable organisations who save lives every day. I salute you and say thank you.

Ray Is Sunshine: A plea to commissioners......

Ray Is Sunshine: A plea to commissioners......: As the G8 summit fasts approaches, my thoughts turn to those living with dementia everyday of their lives and their families, who often feel...

A plea to commissioners......

As the G8 summit fasts approaches, my thoughts turn to those living with dementia everyday of their lives and their families, who often feel lonely and isolated by the lack of support post diagnosis.

As the great and the good in the dementia world debate, wander around the exhibition hall and share business cards, I want them to stop and think about what is happening right here, right now in this country for those living with dementia.

For me more than anything we must stop headlines that talk about the financial cost to the country that dementia brings. If we are to end the stigma, we must first stop dementia sounding like a financial burden on this country. For those that have loved and lost family members to dementia we know that they have contributed to society in more ways than one. Many have worked all their lives, paid their taxes, national insurance and prepared for their future by putting aside money towards their pension. If we can not, as a society now able to support them in their hour of need, what does that say about us?

Our society needs to see the value our loved ones with dementia bring. My dad Ray had Alzheimer's but he was still our "Raysey" , a husband, father and papa. However in his hour of need I felt society had abandoned him as though he was now a burden and a problem.

There is much talk at the moment of diagnosis rates across the country and that GP's are reluctant to promote the diagnosis rates as they see little point. In fairness to the GP's what they do see, is a lack of care and support available to many of their patients through that process and post diagnosis.  Personally for me the drive should not be to increase diagnosis rates without ensuring that there is the support in place to help families and individuals. I am not saying its not important that people receive a diagnosis but I think it's cruel to give someone this life changing information and then abandon them.

Only last week I heard that the London Dementia Advocacy Service was closing due to lack of  funding, I also had a call from a friend whose dad had just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and his mother was having a really tough time as his dad tried to come to terms with his diagnosis and didn't know who to turn too. Why are we driving up diagnosis rates without ensuring the whole pathway of care is in place too?

With GP's now being asked to be the care coordinators for the over 75's and frail elderly we have a real opportunity to put the care and support in place for our loved ones with dementia and all our elderly and vulnerable. To do this though it will need significant investment in primary care to put the right staff with the right skills in place to provide that care.  The GP's can not do this alone and will need the multidisciplinary community teams to support them to do this. Community nurses in my opinion and the role they can play in providing continuity of care in the community is undervalued. So I believe is the value of  dementia nurse specialists such as those provided by the Admiral Nursing Services. What we would have given to have had a dementia nurse who was there for us on the end of the phone to provide support and advocacy for us.

So I am asking commissioners, CCG's and GP's to seriously consider having Dementia Nurse Specialists within primary care services to case load manage their patients with dementia. Position them alongside your community Multi-disciplinary teams to support joint working and provide dementia training and awareness. Joint working and continuity of care for those with dementia with a step up/step down care plan in place to prevent unnecessary escalation and crisis admission to hospital.

Before you argue they cost too much think about the other specialist roles for cancer, lung diseases etc and tell me how you can deny those with dementia a terminal illness the same access to specialist care and support. The money saved in unnecessary crisis admissions to hospital can surely out weigh the salary of a senior nurse. We need to invest in a skilled competent workforce that is able to manage people with co morbidity and complex needs if we are to truly provide care closer to people's home and help prevent unnecessary hospital admissions.

With the focus on A&E at the moment, we were here before 10 years ago when I was working as a senior nurse in an A&E department. The 4 hour target was brought in to try and get the whole system to work together to prevent exactly what is happening now! What I haven't seen though over the last 10 years and I have worked in Health Care for nearly 30 years now is significant investment in primary care services to ensure we have timely discharge and admission avoidance. In fact what we now have I believe is a future staffing crisis as community nurses start to leave and retire and their are now less nurses in the community to care for our elderly and vulnerable.

So please please as a daughter who lost a beloved father to Alzheimer's, invest in Primary care, provide dementia nurses to coordinate care for our loved ones, raise awareness and help reduce stigma and this in turn will bring people forward for diagnosis knowing they are not going to be diagnosed into a life without care and support. Thank you.

No one should have to pay for End of Life Care.........

This week saw the publication of  "People's final journey must be one of their choosing...." Ways and Means by Ally Paget and Claudia Wood.

This research was commissioned by Sue Ryder, as they describe "We are concerned that the system has lost sight of the individual when it comes to their care at the end of life and the current model is not sustainable. Dignified and quality care is still not up to standard across all settings, care is not coordinated, and individuals and their families remain unsupported at the most life changing and emotionally challenging time."

So much of this research rang true for us as a family, it was very sad reading but at the same time came relief that we were not alone and with it hope that its findings would be used to improve care for others with dementia at the end of their life.

My father died at home with my mother and I with him, however to get him there had been a battle of enormous courage mainly on my mother's part. His final journey started in hospital some 11 weeks earlier after being admitted to hospital with pneumonia. On admission he was commenced on intravenous antibiotics and fluids and after two weeks did appear to be making an improvement. It was at this point that discussions around discharge home and care packages were started and as my dad was already known to social services with a care package already in place we thought the process would be pretty straightforward... how wrong were we!

We knew that dads care needs had increased, he was already a frail man when he went into hospital needing 24 hour care provided at home by my mother. It had always amazed me how she had managed up until now with only a 30 minute visit in the morning and a 20 minute visit in the evening from carers. Much of this was driven by the fact that social care is means tested and so dad had to pay for his own social care. I lived over 60 miles away from my parents and with no immediate family near by the responsibility of caring for dad lay with my mother, something she was happy to do as for her my father had given her "many wonderful years".

It was during this period of time in hospital that Continuing Health Care Funding (CHC) was mentioned and as dad had tested positive to the first assessment process we were asked whether it was a route we wanted to go down. Although a nurse I had little knowledge of what this entailed and asked if someone could tell us more about it. We were told that it was an assessment process of my dads health care needs and if we were successful then dads care would be paid for, however it was stressed at this point that not many people were successful in qualifying for it and obtaining the funding. Mum and I had a chat and we both felt that dad had worked for fifty years and as he had paid for his social care up until now if there was an opportunity that health would now cover that cost for him to live his days out at home then we should go for it.

What we didn't realise at this stage was how difficult, long and a, traumatic a process this was to be and that by the time we had a decision some 5 weeks later dad would be needing end of life care. For mum and I the decision as to whether we made the right choice will live with us for ever. So why did it take so long and what happened in that time...... good question, but I will have a go at explaining what happened.

We made the decision to go ahead and ask for dad to be considered for CHC funding, what we didn't realise at that point was a multi disciplinary meeting to discuss his assessment had been booked with a date in the diary of everybody except ourselves. We were given no written documentation on the procedure and the first we knew about it was when a nurse mentioned to my mum the day before that the meeting was going ahead the next day and it was noted that my mum had declined attending.

My mum rang me much upset saying that she didn't even know the meeting was the next day let alone had declined to attend. My mum and I had power of attorney and welfare for my dad and had wrongly assumed that we would be involved in any decisions around his care. My father had end stage dementia and did not have the ability to make decisions on his care and would not have been able to give verbal permission for this process to take place.

The next morning I rang the ward voicing my concerns and was then given the number of the member of staff I needed to speak to. I stressed that my mother and I wanted to be at this meeting so we could represent my father and be his advocate as my mother was his main carer. The meeting was postponed and re arranged when I could be there to support my mother.

The day of the multi-disciplinary meeting I travelled down and was met on the ward by the social worker who was meeting my dad for the first time before going into the meeting. She wanted to see what my father was like and speak to my mother.

We were taken into the staff rest room where the meeting was to take place and present in the room were the lead for the CHC assessment process, my dad's physio, a nurse and the social worker who had just met him. The lead started to explain the process to us all and at this point emphasised that my dad was highly unlikely to be successful in getting funding for his care and I felt was implying we were all wasting our time. Not a good start!

And then the picking apart of my dads care needs started according to the domains we were looking at. It felt like a process, we were just an inconvenient number causing extra work in paperwork that would always have the same outcome- no funding. So lets look at my dads care needs in more depth at the time of the assessment. He was totally bed bound, could not obey commands and needed turning regularly on an air mattress. The only way to get him out of bed was to use a hoist which was extremely difficult as he was frail and unable to understand direction. In the chair he needed pillows to support him otherwise he would lean to one side.

He wore pads as he was unaware of the need to pass urine and was unable to feed himself. His swallow was impaired and had to have thickener in his drinks and pureed diet which were given to him by my mother. His appetite was low and he was loosing weight something we were keen to emphasis at this meeting and common with advanced dementia. His medication needed to be crushed and given to him and much of the time he would spit it back out. He could not be left unsupervised as was unable to do anything for himself and we felt as a family his care needs were high, he was at risk of malnutrition, dehydration and pressure sores and prone to recurrent infections. He was also on Warfarin for Atrial Fibrillation and a previous heart attack and in recent years had been treated for bladder cancer.

However none of this seemed to be defined as a health need, sadly because he was bed bound he was a low falls risk so scored low. Where my mum had looked after him so well prior to admission he had no pressure sores so again scored low. He did not shout out or cause problems for the staff to manage as he was so frail however again this scored him low.

Then came the question of weight, how much did he weigh? This needed to be done as part of the assessment. It was at this point we were told they were just weighing him now so it could inform the meeting. How much did he weigh on admission, well they had that in his notes so that was ok, however when the weight of that day was given it turned out my dad has lost a considerable amount of weight since admission and that this had not been picked up as he had not been weighed in the 3 weeks of admission. It was at this point that my mother and I burst into tears, it was becoming unbearable, this was a process driven by the need to tick boxes and complete forms. It was not about what was best for my dad. For us his care needs felt huge, the responsibility and worry for my mother had been great prior to my dads admission and here they were saying that my dads care needs were "basic" and could easily be provided by domiciliary care. How dare they say his care needs were basic when they hadn't even bothered to weigh him for 3 weeks and flag up what we had been telling them that he was loosing weight. Even as a health care professional nothing has prepared me for the totally distressing experience that meeting was, we felt like frauds, what right did we think that our husband, father with his end stage dementia would need anything other than "basic care". The meeting was over he scored border line, we were told the paper work would be prepared and the final decision would be made by the PCT CHC Team.

Then began the wait, nothing could be done until a decision had been made as to whether my father qualified for CHC Funding. However sadly this was to be a long wait, 5 weeks to be precise during which time my father's condition deteriated further, he contracted another hospital acquired pneumonia and became very unwell. I tried to speed things up during this time, I rang the PCT direct myself to ask them after 2 weeks whether they had received my dad's paper work, they had not, they didn't even know anything about him. I then informed them of my concerns as my father was now very ill and they were talking about putting him on the Gold Standard Framework for End of Life care, we wanted him to be at home with us as we didn't know how much longer he had left. They said sadly they could help until the hospital had informed them of my dad.

I then rang the hospital to speak to the lead CHC assessment person who had only just finished writing my dads report and would be faxing it over to the PCT as soon as they could. I explained my concerns that my dad was very ill and that we wanted to get him home as soon as possible.

All of this fell onto deaf ears, it in fact took a total of five weeks to get the decision which we heard finally from the hospital social worker who told us my dads application had been unsuccessful and that his care package would now come under them. Dad had been in hospital at total of 8 weeks at this point, my mother and I were at our wits end, what had we done putting dad through all those extra weeks in hospital all for nothing. Five weeks of his life that we can never get back whilst health and social care fight over who pays for his care, where is the person in all of this, where is what is best for them?

Mum resigned herself to the fact that we had lost and that she would fund dad's care, the priority was to get him home to live out however many days he had left. However then began our next battle, surely not again when time was so precious to us all. It turned out that dads care package from before had to reviewed and arranged through the hospitals social services team. What made this so bad was to hear that in doing so dad could no longer have the care agency he had been using for the previous 2 years. Dad would be leaving hospital with an increased care package of 4 visits a day which meant it would take him up to his threshold of weekly payment contributions so that anything over and above that social care would pay. Bearing in mind my dad would still be paying over £1,000 a month for his care.

For someone living with dementia continuity of care is so important, dad had had the same carer every morning for 5 days a week for the last 2 years. She had become like part of the family and although you are supposed to keep a professional distance its very hard not to become friends with the carer that you rely on so much, who comes to be part of your life, is the first person you might see after a sleepless night and is the one always there for you day in day out. For my mum this was a huge blow, not only was she trying coming to terms with the fact that my dad was now dying, but also they were taking away the only familiarity and support they both so needed at this time. Mum felt like a stake had been driven through her heart, her beloved Ray was dying and her carers were being taken away too.

I think this is the cruellest thing you can do to anyone and their family at the end of their life, it didn't even cross my mind to fight the decision I felt we had no choice. However sorting out the care package was going to take time, time my dad didn't have and my mum had reached the point where she had had enough. She didn't want my dad to die in hospital she wanted him home surrounded by familiar sights, smells and love,  so much love. She decided to arrange her own care package with the agency she had used for the last two years, she rang them up and arranged for 4 visits a day agreeing to pay them direct and the proviso was once the new care package from the hospital social services team was in place the new care team would have to start.

We got dad home, he was in a hospital bed in the dining room overlooking the garden. We wanted him to feel at the heart of the family home, it was important that he didn't feel shut away or isolated alone upstairs. The first week he had the carers from his regular agency and the children and I went down to stay at the weekend to be with them both. The new care agency was due to start the following week, however we had a name of an agency but no one had made contact and we didn't know who was coming if any one at all the next day.

I decided to ring the duty social services team to find out whether anyone was coming the next day, obviously this was hard as it had not be arranged by them. However the lady managed to find out who the agency was and I voiced my concern that no one had made contact with us and as I was having to travel home that day I needed to be assured that carers were coming into to help my mum the next day. I also voiced my concern that an assessment of my dads care needs had not been made and duly that afternoon an assessment was arranged for the care agency to come out and meet my mum and dad to ensure the necessary care package was in place for the next day. We also wanted to know who this agency were, we had never heard of them, didn't know if they were any good and when you are talking about a precious life as we are in these situations we need assurance that our loved ones are safe.

The lady arrived that afternoon and thank goodness I had asked her too as what was so shocking sadly was the fact that the agency had no idea my dad was so ill or even that he was on an end of life care pathway. The information the social work team from the hospital had sent the agency was 6 months out of date when my dad was mobile and walking out to the bathroom added by the carer. There was nothing in the paper work they were sent that would have led them to believe my dad was in a hospital bed, needing total care provided by 2 carers four times a day. What this meant was that the care agency then had to try and arrange a care package for my dad on a Sunday afternoon that would provide the level of care dad needed from the next day. To say this was distressing for all involved was an understatement, mum was already very upset with loosing her previous carers but to have this happen now at a time when she felt so vulnerable and was paying for his care was very sad to see.

However we were lucky the agency does deserve credit because the manager did sort out the care package for the next day against all the odds. They arranged for carers that always worked in pairs to look after my dad so he only ever saw four carers over those two weeks that he had left before he died. The carers were lovely and we are thankful for that, they were gentle and caring of my dad and they were lovely to my mum.

I contacted the community team in the first week to let them know dad was out of hospital and they came to do an assessment. They felt at this stage a visit once a week from the community team was enough, which for me was as a surprise as I felt dad needed more input, however when I questioned this I was told they felt my dad looked "quite well". It is at this point that I have one particular nurse who I will be ever thankful to. She had come out to take my dads blood for his INR check as the phlebotomist was off sick and what she saw had shocked her. She was visibly upset to see how my dad had deteriated, she had seen him prior to his admission to hospital when she had done his blood at home. She was so shocked that she immediately arranged for her boss to come out and see my mum and dad an another assessment was done. They decided that they would visit every couple of days to check on how things were going. Sadly by the next week my dads condition had deteriated further and my mum called the community team to visit. Dads swallow had finally gone and he was now unable to take any foods or fluids orally. The GP visited and the sad decision was made to make my dad as comfortable as possible for the remaining days he had. I came down to stay so I could support my mum and be with my dad at the end.

A pump was commenced with pain relief and sedation to keep my dad as comfortable as possible, it was set for a 24 hour period. The carers continued to visit four times a day helping us to turn dad and change his position. We played his favourite music and some friends and family came to say their final goodbyes. The community nurses would visit once a day to change the pump ensuring everything was prepared for the day ahead. They were a small team of nurses providing a service up until 7pm each day, after that it was down to the out of hours on call doctors if you needed help. It was the nights that we found the hardest and the longest and for the final 3 days of dads life the community nursing team provided us with a health care support worker to sit with us during the night. It felt very lonely those last few days, we are a small family, my mum is an only child and so we were not lucky to be surrounded by lots of family to help and support us. For us the four visits a day from the carers became a life line, they even got us essentials like bread and milk. The community team were there but you had to call them if you needed them their priority and their main visit was to change the pump once a day. They simply did not have the resources to provide further support to us. We asked about hospice at home as we had a hospice in our village however sadly it was only available to those with cancer.

The community nursing team even tried one last attempt at getting continuing health care funding for dad and even 24hrs before he died they still turned him down. They said that the community nursing team visiting once a day to change the pump and the night sitter for the last 3 nights was the health funded contribution to his care.

The night dad died was very hard, the GP had been visiting each day and we knew we were near the end. As the evening drew in we waited for our night sitter to arrive and keep us company. Mum and I never slept or washed from the time dads pump was started, we sat by his bed side holding his hand the whole time. We would take it in turns to make cups of tea, but neither of us felt like eating. We both turned to twitter for its continued support, it had been a life line to us in the last year of dad's life and had become even more so in his final hours. In those final few hours as my dad's condition deteriated I needed some reassurance that we were doing the right thing, it was very late at night and I decided to see if by chance a twitter friend was on line and they were. They know who they are but I can't thank them enough for providing the reassurance I so needed that night, for speaking to me on the phone and giving my mum and I the strength to get through those final hours.

Dad passed away just after midnight on the 1st September 2012 being hugged by my mum and I.
 A light went out in my heart that night........




What I now ask is why should anyone at the end of their life have to pay for their own care to die at home?



Many thanks for listening

Sally-Ann xxx

 

 

 

  

Part 1: Acute care and dementia………

As we know there is much written about the devastating effect hospitals can have on those with dementia including increased confusion, malnutrition and in some cases death.  This is the first of 3 blogs on my experiences of acute care whilst my dad was in hospital.

 Last year my dad was admitted to an acute hospital with pneumonia. Sadly during his time with dementia (7 years) we had struggled to access care and support within the community in particular the last year of his life, when in fact his needs had become more complex and he would have benefited from advance care planning and input from a co-ordinated and integrated team. Because of a lack of capacity and capability within the community services to provide more intensive care in the home environment our only option was to have dad admitted to hospital.

Dad was very frail he needed 24 hour care, was unable to communicate his needs, bed ridden, incontinent and unaware of the need to eat or drink. Dementia has a devastating effect on the brain which I don’t think many people realise, not only does it rob an individual of their memory, as it progresses they lose the ability to talk, walk, eat or drink. They don’t understand commands and find the world around them frightening and confusing.

Imagine my dad then who had received 1:1 care provided at home by my mother admitted to a busy acute medical ward where 1 registered nurse was responsible for 12 acute medical patients with an HCA to share between 24 patients. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to realise that an elderly frail person with dementia is likely to deteriate quickly if one nurse is responsible for 12 other elderly frail patients. As many of you will know I am a nurse myself and I know that I could never give the level of person centred care needed if I was responsible for 12 other ill patients. Acute medicine is a busy area for any health care professional to work, many patients have complex needs and I know many nurses will finish at the end of their shift knowing they have not delivered the care they would wish to give their patients. It is these nurses that I urge you to speak out to your managers, please do not accept that you have to work in these conditions. Ask yourself how you would feel if it was your loved one lying in that bed, helpless, vulnerable, unable to use the call bell, or articulate their needs.

I often used to liken dad to a young baby, although I feel very sad to have to think of it like that. For dad needed to same level of care as a baby did. He wore incontinence pads that looked like nappies, he needed changing and cream applied on his bottom as you would do for your baby. His food was pureed and he needed feeding otherwise he would have died of malnutrition and dehydration. He could not be left on his own and in the last year of his life became bed bound. So can I ask, would you feel it acceptable to have 1 nurse look after 12 young sick babies on the ward? No you wouldn’t and we have minimum staffing levels for paediatrics, midwifery and ITU so why do we not for frail elderly or vulnerable patients. You might argue that on the children’s wards parents help with the caring and yes many do, however the elderly and vulnerable are not as lucky. Many do not have family or carers to look after them, there are completely reliant on the need of the nursing staff to provide that round the clock care.

So it would come as no surprise to you then to hear that dad often did not get his pads changed all day or turned to prevent pressure sores. He was on an air mattress; however this does not alone provide adequate prevention in skin break down.  Because of this his skin in his groins became very sore and mum found this very distressing to see as dads skin had always been perfect before he came in to hospital. For mum the only solution to ensure my dad got the level of care he needed was to come in every day for 9 hours which she did every day for 9 weeks. She knew that there were not enough nurses to ensure dad was fed, changed or offered drinks to keep him hydrated. She was given the nick name matron by the other patients as she became part of the fixtures and fittings of the 6 bedded bay.  She took it upon herself to look out for the interest of the other patients, often going to find a nurse if one of the patients was trying to get out of bed or reassuring someone who appeared upset or distressed. It became very obvious very quickly that there were not enough staff to care for the complexity of care needs for these patients, many had dementia and I can now see why many deteriated so quickly once in hospital.

Dad had been suffering with recurrent chest infections prior to his admission however it needed my mum to ask the staff if he could be referred to speak and language therapy (SALT) as we were aware that his swallow could be the cause of the recurrent cough and chest infections. It took 6 days from the original request for him to be seen. His swallow was the problem and he was commenced on thickener for his drinks and pureed food.  Have you ever seen the pureed food that comes pre packed in plastic containers like the food served on a plane? Well the only thing this food had in common with the plane food was the packaging! It was the most unappetising meal I have ever seen which was compounded by the fact it was served in the plastic container. For someone who is elderly and frail with loss of appetite presentation of food is so important. It may have been high in nutritional content however the look and sight of it would put off the most hardened ready meal fan!

As we know weight loss in dementia is very common especially as the disease progresses, for anyone ill in a hospital we should consider the appearance and taste of our food. Why do so many hospitals now have food brought in and reheated in the microwave? Why have they shut down their kitchens and stopped preparing fresh appetising food? I visited a hospice last week where the chef told me he cooks food to order for the patients that are not feeling well enough at meal times but might fancy something later in the day. I know hospices are smaller and have less numbers to cater for but why can’t we provide that for our patients in acute hospitals? Something we need to think about!

Staffing levels is the elephant in the room at the moment, that’s why I was so pleased to read the article this week in the nursing times by Trish Morris- Thompson on mandatory staffing levels and the formation of the Safe Staffing alliance.  As she says “To Provide safe, high-quality care it is clear there is a need for mandatory staffing levels” I am totally behind you Trish and urge other nurses whatever grade to get behind this campaign, we owe it to our patients and we owe it to ourselves.

In next week’s blog I  will cover my experience of the continuing health care funding process within acute care and the devastating effect it had on both myself and my mother, until next week………. Thank you for listening

Sally-Ann

 

 

8 months and counting

This is my first attempt at blogging on my own! I have previously written for the Nursing Times about my families experience in caring for my dad who had Alzheimer's however I have not written much since he died.
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This does not mean however that I haven't been busy campaigning for better care because I have. Many of you will know me from twitter @nursemaiden this is where I am most days chatting, posting links and networking with like minded people who care like I do about those living with dementia. For me twitter has been a life saver not only whilst my dad Ray was alive but also as I continue to campaign in his honour.

My thoughts for this blog are around sharing our journey from diagnosis up until his death and then work with you to take that learning and see how we can use it to improve care for others living with dementia right now. As a nurse I found the system totally disjointed and reactive, what I would like to see is a coordinated, integrated health and social care system that proactively manages the care for those living with dementia. Not a reactive service that relies on the acute sector as its default care provider. We know that in many cases hospital care can cause rapid deteriation in an individuals condition and I intend to write about my dads time in hospital prior to his death in future blogs.

I hope you will find my dads story inspires you to improve the care you give whatever your role and I hope you will join me in my journey as I work to raise the profile of dementia and improve the care and support to those living with it. Together we must find a way to make a difference, come let's make a start........thanks for listening.


Sally-Ann